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TOP TIPS
Don't
you hate those people who everyone likes? Actually, you probably don't! Some
people have this ability to skate through life, beloved by everyone. They find
it easy to make friends and rarely ruffle anyone's feathers. You might want to
hate them, but you simply can't. If you would like to learn more about the
habits of likable people, keep reading.
1. They Are Genuine
Likable
people are honest. You can't be likable if you are constantly lying, it will
catch up to you eventually. Likable people are also genuinely themselves. They
don't act like anyone else; they are happy with who they are.
2. They Give Freely
You
don't have to give away everything you own to be likable, but being willing to
give without receiving anything in return is a key trait of a likable person.
Giving isn't limited to money and gifts though, likable people are also willing
to give their time.
3. They Let Others Shine
It
feels good to be recognized for something that you have accomplished. Likable
people will allow you to bask in that glory. They are happy to see you get
rewarded and don't hold any jealousy about it.
4. They Ask Thoughtful
Questions
It is
often said that we should listen two times as much as we speak. Likable people
take this a step further. They don't just listen, though; they follow up with
thoughtful questions that prove they are actually interested in what you have
to say.
5. They Are Positive
It is
much more enjoyable to spend time with positive people. They might not be over
the top happy at all times, but likable people tend to think and act
positively. They will always find the silver lining when you are feeling down
in the dumps.
6. They Don't Pass Judgement
Likable
people tend to be less judgmental than the rest of us. If they do judge
someone, they will do it silently. They believe in "live and let
live" as long as your actions aren't directly harming them or the people
around them.
7. They Are Humble
There
are few things worse than spending time in the company of a braggart. While it
is perfectly fine to be proud of your accomplishments, talking about them all
the time is a bore. Likable people certainly have accomplishments they are
proud of, but they would rather you ask about them first.
8. They Take Responsibility
No
one is perfect; we all make mistakes at one point or another. Likable people
are no different; they make mistakes, too - sometimes major ones. The
difference is they take responsibility. They acknowledge they did wrong,
apologize and then let you know how they plan to make sure it never happens
again.
9. They Are Patient
Likable
people are often more patient than others. They don't mind waiting for you to
figure out what you want to do. They don't get irritated or annoyed very
quickly. They will let you move at your speed, just happy to be in your
company.
FAST-ACTION STEPS
a) Look
at the list of habits above. Which ones do you think you already possess? Write
these down.
b) Looking
at the same list of habits, which ones do you lack? Write these down.
c) Finally,
look at the list of habits you lack. Develop a plan to foster this habit in
your life.
FURTHER
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