WeChat Cleaning

WeChat Spring Cleaning: A Heartfelt Apology and a Speed Boost

Dear students, friends, and the 7,000+ digital souls who once shared a place in my WeChat universe,

I have a confession to make. Remember when I solemnly swore I would never delete a contact from my WeChat? Yeah… about that. Turns out, I didn’t account for one tiny little detail—having nearly 7,000 contacts is like stuffing a suitcase with way too many souvenirs. At some point, the zipper just refuses to close.

My WeChat was struggling. Lagging. Freezing. Crying for help. Every time I tried to open the app, it felt like it was running a marathon through quicksand. Conversations took forever to load, and I swear my phone started sweating from the effort.

So, after much soul-searching (and a whole lot of frustration),I made the tough decision to declutter—a digital Marie Kondo moment, if you will. I deleted 2,500 contacts in hopes of giving WeChat some breathing room. And guess what? It actually helped! My app is moving a little faster now, though it's still dragging its feet like a student on a Monday morning.

But here’s the thing—I didn’t go on a wild deleting spree. I used a fair system: If we haven’t chatted in over a year, I figured we’ve lost touch. If we were still chatting, you’re safe! I promise, no ghosting here.

So, if you suddenly find me missing from your WeChat, don’t take it personally! Just send me a message, and we’ll reconnect. I truly appreciate all the friendships I’ve made since moving to China in 2018. This was purely a necessary cleanup, not a friendship audit.

Now, back to deleting… I mean, optimizing my WeChat experience. 🚀

#WeChatSpringCleaning #7000Contacts #TooMuchLoveForOneApp

Article by Marcelo Gameiro

Published 26 Feb 2025

 

Christmas2024

Today, December 25, marks the celebration of Christmas Witch in my country, a wonderful tradition I hold dear. As I was thinking about what I could share with my students in China, an idea struck me while scrolling through my family WhatsApp group. In this group, we often share photos of our immediate family, and I thought it would be great to share a few of those with you. Here they are!

 

Dreaming of finishing school ?

 

Dream

Dreaming of finishing school ? A MESSAGE FOR THE END OF THE YEAR…

Make the Most of Your University Years: A Wake-Up Call

One day, you’ll look back on your university days with nostalgia. You might even wish you could relive those moments—maybe to fix mistakes, study harder, or listen more carefully to wise teachers whose advice you now understand better. But time doesn’t rewind, and the past stays where it belongs—behind you.

Puff! You wake up. The past you were reminiscing about? It’s not history yet. You’re still here—in the middle of your university journey, with opportunities waiting.

This realization is a gift. There’s still time to change your approach—study more diligently, engage with your professors, and aim for better grades. But university life is more than just exams and certificates. It’s about growth—becoming a better, wiser version of yourself.

University shapes not only your mind but also your character. It’s where you form lasting friendships, gather unforgettable memories, and build the foundation of your future. Success isn’t only measured in academic achievements but also in how much you’ve learned about life, relationships, and yourself.

So, wake up and seize the moment. Work toward your dreams, value your experiences, and embrace every challenge. When the time comes to look back, let your memories be ones of growth, adventure, and meaningful connections. You’re living the story you’ll one day be proud to tell.

Article by Marcelo Gameiro

Published 10 Dec 2024

 

Dumplings 2024

It looks like it was last year, coincidentally I am wearing the same clothing, but last year my pants was light brown, and this year was black. Last year I did crash into the students activity for making dumplings, this year it was better because I got invited, and it was so nice and fun again…

to see last year (2023) post click here

Since I have written last year already of this kind activity, I came here today only to share the pictures and recording I did from yesterday activity:

 

Click  here to watch in YouKu

I also would like to say thank you very much to Cherry, she was the student who invite me for the activity, as many students already know, I don't have family in China, I am here alone and when someone remembers me and invites me to participate together in activities like this, it brightens my day. 

Article by Marcelo Gameiro

Published 21 Dec 2024

 

True or False

True or False?

If this was intended as a trick, it didn’t work. I came across this issue in a final exam test paper today. For question 4, if the student meant to write “True” (T),they crossed the T in the middle, making it look more like an “F.” As a result, I marked question 4 as “False” (F). On the other hand, for question 5, I interpreted it as “True” because the crossing was faint, resembling a small comma (,) rather than a distinct line through the middle, as in question 4.

Unfortunately, this confusion led to both questions being marked as incorrect, which is why you’ll notice my red marks (“X”) beside questions 4 and 5.

As a teacher, the last thing I want is to be unclear about what students have written on their test papers. This is why I provided detailed instructions before the exam began, as shown in the image below.

However, some students might claim this was an “honest” mistake. They can point to what they wrote and argue whether it was meant to be an “F” or a “T,” given how ambiguous it looks. In a True or False question format, where there’s already a 50% chance of guessing correctly, it’s crucial to ensure your answers are clearly written.

For future tests, think carefully before submitting ambiguous answers — they won’t be interpreted in your favor. If this wasn’t intentional, I sympathize, but you need to work on improving your handwriting. Luckily, I might just have the right book to help you with that!

Article by Marcelo Gameiro

Published 24 Dec 2024

Attention Please… There is ALWAYS someone who is not paying attention

 

Attention

Attention Please…

There is ALWAYS someone who is not paying attention…

After the instruction above I got this…

At least the student also use the numbers….

Article by Marcelo Gameiro

Published 24 Dec 2024

Hello

Why Do Men Start Conversations with Just "Hello" on Dating Apps?

Online dating can be exciting but also challenging, especially when initiating conversations. One common complaint from women on dating platforms is receiving a simple “Hello” or “Hi” as a first message. While this may seem lazy or uninspired, there’s a deeper reason behind this approach: time management and emotional protection.

1. Minimizing Emotional Investment

Starting with “Hello” is a low-risk move. Crafting personalized messages takes effort, and many men may have experienced sending thoughtful introductions only to be met with silence. To avoid the sting of rejection, they keep their first messages short and neutral. If the person responds, they can invest more energy into the conversation.

2. Filtering Genuine Interest

Men might see a simple greeting as a way to test interest. If the recipient replies, it signals potential engagement, encouraging them to put in more effort. If there’s no response, they haven’t wasted much time or emotional energy.

3. Managing Time and Expectations

Online dating often involves chatting with multiple people. Sending customized messages to everyone can be overwhelming. A simple “Hello” allows them to gauge responses efficiently while managing their limited time.

4. Social Norms and Simplicity

In many cultures, starting with “Hello” is considered polite and straightforward. Some men might assume that deeper conversations naturally follow a polite greeting.

How to Respond?

If you’re tired of receiving “Hello” messages, consider responding with a light, engaging question like, “Hi there! What inspired you to reach out today?” This can set the tone for a more meaningful conversation—or help you decide if the person is worth your time.

Final Thought: While a simple greeting may seem dull, it often reflects practical dating strategies. The key lies in how the conversation evolves after that initial “Hello.”

Article by Marcelo Gameiro

Published 10 Dec 2024